Be With Yourself First

Being single can be a confusing time for many of us, especially if we’re feeling pressured from trends, such as #relationshipgoals, “cuffing season,” or comparing ourselves to what our friends or followers are posting online. But when we are in our single phase, there is a big difference between being alone and being lonely. The feeling of loneliness stems from a place of fear, whether it’s fear of our inner demons, fear of being “forever alone,” or fear of change. That fear can also keep us stuck in the same toxic cycles of negative self-talk and stunted growth. Spending time alone allows us to reflect on what we want and don’t want in our lives. We can learn to date ourselves, have higher standards, and set boundaries. In the end, it’s important to know who you are outside of a relationship and learn to be with yourself first